*I'm not all about sex** I can carry on a normal conversation also* I can be a good person to talk to especially when you just want someone that will listen to it without judgement*. I was 17 when I realized a vanilla lifestyle wasn't going to work for me. I was kinky and I liked it. My "sexploration" of kinks and fetishes was slow at first, couldn't get into the adult bookstore since I was a minor. I had to rely on second-hand magazines, misinformed peers, and rare fetish VHS tapes that were often so degraded and wore out that they looked and sounded like they were filmed underwater. The girls I fooled around with would try some of the stuff I suggested but most thought Doggystyle was kinky until I pulled their hair and slapped their asses